net/quiche: update to 0.22.0

Install .so with a version and make symlink. Now libquiche.so has soname, so need
to set it up correctly.
Replace do-build with a default one.
Add a default test target.
Pet portfmt.

Changelogs:
https://github.com/cloudflare/quiche/releases/tag/0.22.0
https://github.com/cloudflare/quiche/releases/tag/0.21.0

PR: 280274
Approved by: submitter is maintainer