www/domoticz-devel: Improve port

• Add --no-same-owner --no-same-permissions to EXTRACT_AFTER_ARGS https://cgit.freebsd.org/ports/tree/Mk/bsd.port.mk#n705

• Rework and sort OPTIONS See https://docs.freebsd.org/en/books/porters-handbook/book/#options-cmake_bool

• Remove variables in CMAKE_OFF that are already disabled by default

• Remove TELLDUS which was removed in 2023

Reference:
https://cgit.freebsd.org/ports/commit/?id=55660d2e5466486b38bd437a94f5ce5d089a1e2f

PR: 281016
Reviewed by: Xavier Beaudouin <kiwi@oav.net> (maintainer)