net/kamailio: update to 5.8.5
Changelog: https://www.kamailio.org/pub/kamailio/5.8.5/ChangeLog
Also sanitised port:
- Removed DATABASE, DLGS, POSOPS and SWORKER options while build with them by default.
- Removed SECSIPID option while there's no the secsipidx library on a freebsd.
PR: 284732