www/node: Update 17.0.0_1 -> 17.0.1

https://nodejs.org/en/blog/release/v17.0.1/

While here, update pkg-plist to allow building with the BUNDLED_SSL
option enabled, and add the patch from PR 259454 to fix the build on
i386.

PR: 259454, 259377
MFH: 2021Q4
Sponsored by: Miles AS