net-p2p/transmission{,-components}: Update 4.0.6 => 4.1.1

Update gtk flavor to gtk4 and qt flavor to qt6.

Changelogs:
https://github.com/transmission/transmission/releases/tag/4.1.0
https://github.com/transmission/transmission/releases/tag/4.1.1

Improve port:

• Optimize Makefile for different flavors - dependencies, NO_BUILD, CMAKE_ARGS/CMAKE_ON/CMAKE_OFF, goals and etc.
• Add EXTRACT_AFTER_ARGS to prevent extract unnecessary files.
• Rework do-install.
• Fix warnings from portclippy.

PR: 292846
Co-authored-by: Vladimir Druzenko <vvd@FreeBSD.org>