*/*: Fix dependency definitions of CMake

Multiple ports defines devel/cmake as build and/or run-time dependency
which is incorrect as it waschanged to a meta-port back in 2022.
Remove definitions and Use the USES= cmake helper, due to limitations
of the ports framework run also requires indirect to be defined if
another build system than CMake is used.

Reported by: michaelo
Approved by: blanket, build fix