www/node10: disable BUNDLED_SSL by default on FreeBSD >=12
Change the default options on FreeBSD >=12 since OpenSSL 1.1.1 is
available in the base system. Bump PORTREVISION due to teh change in
defaults.
While here, convert the port to use BROKEN_SSL, taking care to set
BROKEN_SSL+=base when appropriate.
PR: 234762
Reported by: amdmi3
Sponsored by: Miles AS